Kermit Paul Schafer, Jr.

Kermit Paul Schafer, Jr., who was known for his kindness and unwavering generosity, passed away peacefully in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, on February 23, 2025, at the age of 87. Born on June 12, 1937, in Oklahoma City, Kermit was a dedicated family man, an esteemed builder, and an adventurer at heart whose legacy will be cherished by all who had the honor of knowing him.

Kermit graduated from the Culver Military Academy before pursuing higher education at the University of Oklahoma, where he earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Geology. He distinguished himself as a prominent member of the Sigma Alpha Epsilon Fraternity, forging lifelong friendships that would carry him throughout his life. After completing his studies, Kermit served his country as a Naval Intelligence Officer at the Pentagon for two years.

As a President of the OKC Home Builders Association and a devoted member of the National Home Builders Past Presidents Association, Kermit left an indelible mark on the communities of Northwest Oklahoma City and Edmond through his notable developments.

Kermit's zest for life was evident in his love for entertaining family and friends. His adventures were filled with joy, as he relished the opportunity to travel, sharing unforgettable experiences with those he adored. For two decades, he delighted in living part-time in Hawaii, where he deepened his passion for fishing—be it the thrill of bass fishing with his closest friends or the deep-sea excursions in the waters of Hawaii and New Zealand. Kermit was also an avid bird hunter, and he cherished the long road trips taken with his cherished wife, Eloise.

A man of many interests, Kermit’s affinity for reading was matched only by his appreciation for fine food and wine, pursuits that spurred lively conversations around the dinner table with his family.

Kermit is lovingly remembered by his devoted and cherished wife, Eloise Schafer; children, Deborah Dodd, Randy Schafer, Meghan Bray, and Kevin Bray; and his grandchildren, Morgan and Heidi Dodd. He is also survived by his sister, Shelby Schafer.

In his life, Kermit embodied the essence of a southern gentleman—loving, generous, and unyielding in his integrity. His spirit will live on in the stories shared by those he loved and will forever remain imprinted on the hearts of his family and friends.

A special heartfelt thank you to the Iris and Jasmine Estates Care Teams and Good Shepherd Hospice.  In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to All Souls Episcopal Church or the Dementia Society of America.